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Hulya Erdal's avatar

I read this twice. Once to fully appreciate the etiquette of biscuit and tea serving at the AA, and then again so I could revel in our writer's dedication to the service, and their militancy as a result. I laughed out loud at times, then cried and then rushed to the biscuit tin for support.

I have enjoyed every word, purpose and utter joy that this act of service now provides to our author.

P.S. I am partial to a fig roll myself.

Fleigan's avatar

The best biscuits. People unfairly lump them in with garibaldis

Hulya Erdal's avatar

Soooo true!!

(Although I do have to say, I am partical to a Garibaldi too!)

Fig rolls are a unique biccy that deserve special bragging rights, as far as I'm concerned!

Amy Liptrot's avatar

A very good read thanks. “A parish council run by former wreckheads” 😃

Dora's avatar

Hard to add words to what others have already written, but this was such a fantastic piece I felt I had to.Yes, please keep up the writing, you’ve had us laughing and crying at the turn of a sentence.

Lovely

Mary Fawzy's avatar

This was charming, sad, hilarious, and beautifully written!

Pamela Pérez | The Long Table's avatar

This moved me — the idea that a table of biscuits and tea, however humble, becomes a place of care. "I did not think I deserved kindness or a biscuit." That line undid me a little.

There's something universal here: how setting out a cup for someone, remembering their order, is its own quiet language of love. I write from the south of Chile about tables and what happens around them, and this is the heart of it — that the smallest offering, made with attention, can hold someone together. Thank you for sharing this, even anonymously. Especially anonymously.

AV's avatar

I love when something like this, so removed from my own life experience, makes me feel so much. I laughed, I cried, I felt proud of Anon and I wish them the best

Hester's avatar

This was wonderful- hilarious and poignant. Thank you

Amina Horozić's avatar

Joining the laughed, cried, loved club of this essay. Please pass on both the high fives and hugs to the anonymous author! 🧸

mcebacal's avatar

Absolutely loved

WallisR's avatar

A wonderful piece of writing. Thank you!

dan's avatar
Jun 8Edited

Loved this X

Tessa Broad's avatar

A great piece of writing - funny, poignant and quietly very affecting thank you.

Ettie Holland's avatar

Thank you for this piece 🙏

Ro's avatar

So beautifully written (and hilarious / devastating all at once). Thank you x

Brian Gatens's avatar

Lovely read. Thank you.

Crème Anglaise's avatar

I came to know myself while reading this.

And you’re so right, that intense, controlling energy just needs another outlet. Unleash it on a project and you’re a genius (unleash it on another person and it’s abuse).

Thank the Lord for the sanity of biscuits and shared kitchens. Sugar is the poor man’s ssri.